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What is Life Coaching
Do you ever feel like your emotional reaction to life's challenges is holding you back?
They might be causing you to procrastinate on important tasks and goals, struggle with negative self-talk, or even sabotage your relationships. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone!
Many people find themselves caught in a cycle of overwhelming emotions and emotional reactions that limit their ability to reach their full potential. This is where life coaching with a focus on emotional resilience can be a game-changer.
At Free to Bee® life coaching provides a safe and supportive space for you to explore your unique emotional fingerprint. Through personalised coaching sessions, you'll gain valuable tools and strategies to understand and manage your triggers, manage stress more effectively and develop healthy coping mechanisms, which all work together to increase resilience to life's challenges.
By learning to navigate your emotions with greater awareness and control, you'll be empowered by a new sense of inner strength and stability. This newly awakened emotional resilience gives you a stronger foundation for achieving your goals, building healthier relationships and ultimately living a happier, peaceful, more fulfilling life.
If you'd like a consultation or to see if life coaching could help you or someone you care about please either book in for a consultation or fill in the enquiry form at the bottom of the page.
Let's connect and see if life coaching is right for you.
Jane Smith
"My life has now changed for the better I never ever thought my mind would feel so clear and tame. I can now go out and about without worrying about my bowel and anxiety."
Mark, New Zealand
"My anxiety is now under control and I am able to think more clearly and logically. I am not consumed by negative thoughts like I was before seeing Debbie."
Tina, New Zealand
"I have a greater sense of peace and better connections with people which has led to less of a life struggle overall."
Fran, New Zealand
"It has been a few weeks after my final session with Debbie and I am honestly feeling so good and far more balanced than I was previously. I am really starting to notice changes in things that we worked on and I also have a better understanding of situations around me."
Bea, New Zealand
"Since my sessions with Debbie I have noticed I am far more relaxed, am sleeping better, if I wake I can usually go right back to sleep, I'm not needing as much pain relief for my back and I start each day with a positive focus on what I want to achieve.."
Virginia, New Zealand
"Working with Tame your Mind was the best decision I ever made.
I had bad anger management problems and thought no one could understand me or help me. Debbie was amazing in helping me and getting me back on track to the life I would like myself to have and to enjoy."
Kane, New Zealand
"I can smile when I look in the mirror and celebrate every small step as it happens. The work I have done with Debbie has given me the power to accept who I am, to be proud of who I am and what I have achieved and the strength to follow my dreams, living my life in powerful peace."
Michelle, New Zealand
"My favourite areas of my work with her has been the work we did on values. This was an incredible session that rocked my world because it opened up a whole arena of how to go forward in life.
By knowing my values I now know what my goals are. I’ve been able to take on things I wouldn’t have been able to before with confidence."
Nicholas, New Zealand
"Debbie is very calm and caring as she listens allowing you to feel comfortable through out the session.
She also helped with my emotional eating, and I now feel better about myself."
Kim, New Zealand
Get in touch with us today to find out how we can help you
Frequently Asked Questions
About Life Coaching
What is the purpose of Life Coaching?
Life coaching is all about overcoming both real and perceived barriers that limit our ability to achieve our goals. Life coaching at Free to Bee has a focus on emotional resilience. This is because emotions can have both a positive and a negative influence on goal achievement. Positive emotions lift us and promote goal achievement, whilst negative emotions can limit us and stop us reaching our potential. Emotions have an enormous influence and impact on our lives.
We aims to empower our clients to achieve their goals and live a more fulfilling life by increasing their emotional resilience to life's struggles. Life coaching provides a supportive space to explore challenges, develop strategies to manage emotions effectively and build the inner strength to overcome obstacles. By working with a life coach who has a focus on emotional resilience you'll gain the tools and confidence to navigate life's ups and downs with greater ease.
Do Life Coaches really work with emotions?
Yes, life coaches do traditionally work with emotions to some degree. While the specific focus can vary depending on the coach's specialty, emotions are often a key element in achieving a client's goals.
Here's why:
1. Emotions drive behavior: Our feelings significantly impact our actions and decisions. By understanding and managing emotions, clients can make more deliberate choices aligned with their goals. In other words they can respond instead of react to inevitable obstacles they encounter.
2. Emotions impact goal achievement: Fear, frustration or overwhelm can limit progress. Life coaches help clients identify emotional barriers and develop strategies to navigate them.
3. Emotions influence self-belief: Negative emotions can lead to self-doubt and affect motivation. Life coaches can help clients build emotional resilience and cultivate positive self-talk so that they are better prepared for challenges.
However, the depth to which a life coach works with emotions can differ. Some focus on general emotional awareness and management, while others specialise in helping clients address specific challenges like anxiety or anger.
What happens at the consultation?
In our consultation, we'll work together to:
1. Give you an opportunity to teach me more about the issue and how it affects you to give me insight into what your struggles are
2. Make a plan that works for you. The plan needs to meet your level of commitment to change, availability, beliefs and budget.
3. If appropriate book a date to get started with your unique life coaching plan to assist you to meet your goals.
What happens in a session?
Each session is dedicated to the particular issue the client is facing at the time. I do not plan a standard session, they are all unique and dedicated to the clients needs.
Having said that I will always cover values in the first session as I believe they are key to understanding yourself and your emotions.
A session begins with an update on the previous session - if applicable and identifying the goal for the given session.
We then work consistently to resolving that particular facet of the overall problem.
Strategies and or an action plan may be developed, tools and techniques to manage emotions and challenges may be shared, support and encouragement will be given.
With your consent we may use visualisation on occasions where it is appropriate.
Do you work with children?
Yes, children are also affected by obstacles in life and their emotions. By empowering children to challenge their limiting beliefs and manage their emotions they are more equipped for the inevitable challenges of adolescence and adulthood.
For children under the age of 13 years I do require that a parent or other adult the child trusts be present at the appointment both online and in person.
I have a long history of working with children from my previous career as a Dental Therapist.
How much does it cost?
Sessions are an hour each.
I also offer two hour sessions for people who are in a hurry to reach their goal.
The cost of a session is:
$99 one hour session
$199 two hour session
Do I join online or in person?
I offer both online, telephone and in-person sessions.
Clients choose the option that best suits your needs and preferences.
Online sessions are conducted via secure video conferencing software and offer the convenience of meeting from anywhere with an internet connection.
In-person sessions take place at my office in Hamilton.
I really enjoy working with people online and by phone. For some people it seems to give them enough distance and privacy to really dig deep in terms of identifying what is holding them back from overcoming challenges and obstacles in achieving their goals.
It is not always possible for people to work with me in person so online or phone work is a great way of moving past the challenge of physical location.
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Please Note:
Free to Bee® is not a Medical or Mental Health Agency or Service.
We are not trained medical or mental health professionals.
Our training is to help clients move beyond life challenges that they believe are holding them back.
While our services this may contribute to increasing a person's overall emotional resilience, it is not a replacement for dedicated medical or mental health help, support, diagnosis or advice.
If you are looking for a mental health service please click the link below for a list of agencies providing assistance.
Contact us at Free to Bee
Phone: 0272302310
Email: debbie@freetobee.co.nz
Online or In person Sessions worldwide
Based in Hamilton, New Zealand
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Important Phone Numbers -
New Zealand
Lifeline Aotearoa 0800 543 354
Youthline 0800 376 633
Domestic Violence (Shine) Helpline 0508 744 633
Suicide Crisis Helpline 0508 828 865
Mental Health & Addictions Helpline Call or Text 1737 to talk with a trained counsellor
Depression helpline 0800 111 757
Anxiety helpline 0800 ANXIETY
Healthline 0800 611 116
OUTline NZ 0800 688 5463 (LGBTIQ+)